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Every society has its rites of passage, marking the transition from youth to adulthood. Most of these rites of passage are ritualized and structured, with adult supervision and celebration. But the major rite of passage in our society is unritualized, unstructured and unnamed. Most of the people in the middle of it don&#8217;t even know it is going on. It happens between ages 22 and 30.The people who endure this rite of passage have often attended colleges where they were not taught how to work hard. As Richard Arum and Josipa Roksa write in their book &#8220;Aspiring Adults Adrift,&#8221; the average student at a four-year college studies alone just over one hour per day. That is roughly half of how much students were compelled to study just a generation ago.Meanwhile, colleges have become socially rich, stocked with student centers, student organizations, expensive gyms, concerts and activities. As Arum&#8217;s and Roksa&#8217;s research demonstrates, academic life is of secondary or tertiary importance to most students. Social life comes first. Students experience college as a place to meet other people and learn to build relationships.When they leave campus, though, most of those social connections and structures are ripped away. Suddenly fresh alumni are cast out into a world almost without support organizations and compelled to hustle for themselves.These twenty-somethings live in a world of radical freedom, flux and insecurity. Surveys show they are very pessimistic about the state of the country but amazingly optimistic about their own eventual destiny. According to the Clark University Poll of Emerging Adults, 86 percent agree with the statement, &#8220;I am confident that eventually I will get what I want out of life.&#8221;In the meantime, many spend the first few years out of college aspiring but adrift. They are largely unattached to religious institutions. Two-thirds report that they are not politically engaged. Half the students in Arum&#8217;s and Roksa&#8217;s recent study reported that they lacked clear goals or a sense of direction two years after graduation.Yet they are not sure they want to rush into adulthood. As Jeffrey Jensen Arnett and Elizabeth Fishel write in &#8220;Getting to 30,&#8221; &#8220;The value of youth has risen, and the desirability of adulthood has dropped accordingly. Today&#8217;s young people expect to reach adulthood eventually, and they expect to enjoy their adult lives, but most are in no hurry to get there.&#8221;One way they cope is by moving back home. A third of the graduates in the Arum and Roksa sample were living at home, levels roughly double the share of grads living at home in the 1960s. Three-quarters of 18- to 25-year-olds who were not living at home received financial assistance from their parents. American parents provide an average of $38,000 in assistance to their young adult children.The first big ordeal is finding a job. Many young adults have not been given basic information about how to go about this. As my Times colleague April Lawson, 28, notes, they are often given the advice, &#8220;Follow your dream! The possibilities are limitless!&#8221; which is completely discordant with the grubby realities they face. They want meaningful work with social impact. They want to bring their whole selves to work and ignore the distinctions between professional and intimate life that were in the heads of earlier generations. But meaningful work is scarce. Fifty-three percent of college graduates in the Arum and Roksa sample who were in the labor force were unemployed, underemployed or making less that $30,000 a year.As emerging adults move from job to job, relationship to relationship and city to city, they have to figure out which of their meanderings are productive exploration and which parts are just wastes of time. This question is very confusing from the inside, and it is certainly confusing for their parents.Yet here is the good news. By age 30, the vast majority are through it. The sheer hardness of the &#8220;Odyssey Years&#8221; teaches people to hustle. The trials and errors of the decade carve contours onto their hearts, so they learn what they love and what they don&#8217;t. They develop their own internal criteria to make their own decisions. They fear what other people think less because they learn that other people are not thinking about them; they are busy thinking about themselves.Finally, they learn to say no. After a youth dazzled by possibilities and the fear of missing out, they discover that committing to the few things you love is a sort of liberation. They piece together their mosaic.One thing we can tell young grads and their parents is that this is normal. This phase is a thing. It&#8217;s a not a sentence to a life of video games, loneliness and hangovers. It&#8217;s a rite of passage that makes people strong.

How adulthood happens